Paddle1

I am a considerate and thoughtful Alpha Male with many layers, and that loves the BDSM, kinky, alternative (whatever your chosen label) lifestyle. In my experience most people discover this lifestyle due to seeking a deeper connection with themselves and with others, and simply is my normal state of being. I am a strong-willed man with goals and aspirations and I am family-oriented, and maintain My relationships as such. When I was 13, I had an adverse reaction to an unknown agent that left me initially paralyzed from the neck down. Through hard work and determination, I regained the use of my upper body. I use a manual wheelchair to get around and have recently started to stand. I am active, physically strong, independent and highly capable. Being in a wheelchair has not changed my goals or aspirations or affected my ability to achieve them. I can do many of the other things other men can do and in some cases more. My upper body is unusually strong and muscular. I am a powerhouse of a man but I am gentleman in spirit and like to make people laugh.

You are a woman who is confident but not arrogant. I appreciate women who are service oriented, self-aware and thoughtful. A woman, who is strong, yet sensitive, and not afraid to be adventurous and kinky in and outside the bedroom, embodies a balance that I find appealing, and understands that Alpha does not equate to asshole. I am open to straight, bi or hetreo-flexible. I welcome new friendships as well. If I interest you don't be shy, send me a message. Face picture available per request.

Additionally, If the following paragraph doesn't resonate with you, we are not a match.

Power in Honesty
Staying True to Your Word
Your honest word is one of your most precious and powerful possessions.

Promises are easily made. Keeping them often proves more difficult because when we are pressured to strive always for perfection, we find it simpler to agree to undertake impossible tasks than to say no. Likewise, there is an infinite array of circumstances that conspire to goad us into telling falsehoods, even when we hold a great reverence for truth. When you endeavor to consistently keep your word, however, you protect your reputation and promote yourself as someone who can be trusted to be unfailingly truthful. Though your honesty may not always endear you to others—for there will always be those who fear the truth—you can nonetheless be certain that your integrity is never tarnished by the patina of deceit. Since frankness and sincerity form the basis of all life-enriching relationships, your word is one of your most precious and powerful possessions.

When we promise more than we can deliver, hide from the consequences of our actions through falsehoods, or deny our true selves to others, we hurt those who were counting on us by proving that their faith was wrongly given. We are also hurt by the lies we tell and the promises we break. Integrity is the foundation of civilization, allowing people to live, work, and play side by side without fear or apprehension. As you cultivate honesty within yourself, you will find that your honor and reliability put people at ease. Others will feel comfortable seeking out your friendship and collaborating with you on projects of great importance, certain that their positive expectations will be met. If you do catch yourself in a lie, ask yourself what you wanted to hide and why you felt you couldn’t be truthful. And if life’s surprises prevent you from keeping your word, simply admit your error apologetically and make amends quickly.

Since the path of truth frequently represents the more difficult journey, embarking upon it builds character. You can harness the power of your word when you do your best to live a life of honesty and understand what motivates dishonesty. In keeping your agreements and embodying sincerity, you prove that you are worthy of trust and perceive values as something to be incorporated into your daily existence.